Sooner or later all men come to a conclusion that sincerity and openness within relationships is an only possible way to mutual understanding and durable family relationships.
When talking about honesty of Russian women in relationships with a man two talents are understood, better to say two abilities of Ukrainian girls. The first ability is to tell only truth. The second one is an ability to take truth. Both of these abilities are an art demanding certain skills and willpower.
For Slavic women Honesty and Sincerity are quite similar conceptions. However, they differ as well. Honesty is avoiding of a deceit and fraud in relationships with a man, while sincerity is an absence between real feelings and their expression.
How does it look like in real life? Here is an example of sincerity. If there is a person going in front of you and a large denomination or a purse falls out of their pocket, you always have a choice – to take what you have found silently or catch up to a person and give them their money back. It is not hard to guess what an honest person will do.
Sincerity for Russian girls is an attitude to a man when her thoughts about him and her real behavior coincide. A sincere Russian or Ukrainian woman will never let herself smile to somebody’s face and throw mud to this person behind their back.
Where and when can one count for an absolute sincerity of a bride from Eastern Europe? Surely, in issues of family and marriage. If one plans mutual future, one has to know about important events in past life of one another. Here belong criminal records, former marriages, children of other marriages, serious heritable diseases that threaten their life. In the life of a couple there is a very important issue where an utmost honesty will never hurt. It’s giving birth to children. In this case a man and a woman should get across their idea and understand wishes of one another. However, one should always know when to stop with sincerity.
It is in no way connected with excuse for a lie that never leads to anything good. It is about excessive openness. Russian women don’t think that they can share completely everything with their man. They have their own idea of sincerity. They prefer a light mystery, otherwise they are just afraid of becoming not interesting to their husbands. In such cases men say that she is ‘an open book’, there is nothing exciting or new about her.
Such a ‘Slavic’ sincerity in relationships makes a man and a woman much closer to each other, not letting their mutual interest disappear.